Patrick Alton Wheatley had his final curtain call on January 12, 2022, he was 69. Patrick was born to the late Alton and Laura Wheatley on October 7, 1952, in St. Louis MO. He was the last sibling to be born and rounded the family out at lucky number 11. He was raised in South St. Louis, so staying true to form of any St. Louisan: “What high school did you attend?” Patrick was a St. Mary’s Dragon. He was a great athlete, and it was at St. Mary’s where he found his love for the game of football as well as track. He tried his hand at basketball, but as the old tale he liked to share goes “…after showing my skills on the basketball court, coach said, ‘track starts in a couple weeks, come see me then’ and thus ended my basketball career.” Some of Patrick’s best stories were about playing Varsity football and running kickoffs back because he was smaller than everyone and it was easier to not get tackled, or his 440-yard relay team setting records. It was also at St. Mary’s where Patrick found his love of the stage and theater. Being the youngest of 11 siblings, it is only natural he would fall in love performing in front of a big audience and getting all the attention. After high school, like most men his age, Patrick anxiously waited for his draft number to be called for Vietnam. Deciding it was better to take control rather than leave things to fate, Patrick enlisted in the Army so he could have his choice of branch and potentially MOS. He loved numbers and became a 73D – Accounting Specialist, working for INSCOM (U.S Army Intelligence & Security Command). His four years of active-duty military service offered him some great experiences, first and foremost having a duty station in Heidelberg, Germany. While growing up in St. Louis, the home of Anheuser-Busch Beer, Patrick was no stranger to what he would refer to as the finer beverages in life (beer). His preferred choice went through many rounds starting off with Budweiser, moving to the pull-tab Busch cans, slowly switching to Bud-Light and ending up as a Bud-Select only drinker. But it was in Germany where he really got to expand his horizons, drinking some of the finest beer Germany had to offer, teaching neighbors about the joys of barbequing pork steaks and how you can heighten the experience if doing it while sipping on a cold beer. Patrick never shied away from his roots and shared his love and passion for BBQ and beer wherever he went. After an honorable discharge, Patrick packed up his family and reset his roots back in St. Louis. It was here that he raised his four children with his first wife, Debbie. His passion and love for his children was bountiful. Serving as coach of many softball and soccer teams, or as the bus driver to and from the dance studio, or as a baseball and football adviser (he stayed away from the basketball advice-see aforementioned story) but he encouraged them to find something they love and stick to it—all the way to the end. Some of his best advice was always to “finish what you started, no matter what.” Patrick’s personality never let him sit still. It is probably why he loved being a letter carrier for 27 years – every day was a new adventure with people to talk to and friends to make. To the end he could recite addresses of businesses, recall houses and the names of the family and children he watched grow up, every dog that he ever encountered, good or bad, and by gosh he never missed a flag that was up on a box while driving through a neighborhood. He found a great family at the post-office—meeting his lifelong friend Don Westrich at his first job at the post office downtown and they stayed friends for over 40 years. It was here that Patrick found his second life in sports—playing softball four nights a week on multiple teams, traveling to tournaments and winning trophies. He took up golf and fell in love with what he used to say was the “worst and best four-letter word sport around.” As part of the local 50-50 union at the post office, Patrick also served with his good friend Bill Casey, coordinating the BBQ efforts of their yearly parties, cooking for hundreds of people, playing games, and entertaining them all with his singing and quirky dancing around to the music. Patrick’s love of music was huge. He loved playing the “do I know the song game” with his kids in the car. He would switch from station to station, AM or FM to see if he could jump in and sing. His taste was eclectic, country music, anything from 40’s, 50’s, 60’s, 70’s, as well as anything from Broadway. Patrick never lost his passion for theater. He was a member of several theater families, most notably Family Musical Theater with Mike & Diane Hesser and KTK Productions with Joe and Lauren McKenna. It was here that Patrick introduced all his children to the stage, kicking off summer adventures with his kids and creating memories to last a lifetime. It was within his theater family where he met his second wife, Janet. For as outgoing and verbose as he was, he was still as nervous as could be asking her on date. However, once he did, as they say, the rest is history. They married in May of 2004 and have been together performing on stage, supporting one another as the other took on new roles in new plays, traveling around the US, and enjoying retirement together.
Patrick had the good fortune to understand that family did not always mean blood. It is most likely why he considered and was considered by so many as family – whether at work, on the stage, or on the golf course. He loved hard, put his everything into whatever passion he was pursuing in the moment, and made the best life possible. He is survived by his wife Janet Wheatley, and his four children Penny Prindiville (Tom), Patty Richmond (Fred), Deanna Barnes (Eric), and Josh Wheatley (Holly). Patrick is also survived by his 10 grandchildren, Benjamin, Elisabeth, Makali, Tom, Sophia, Nick, Emma, Marie, Kaedon and Will, and by his two great grandchildren Avery and Aubrey.
Services: Visitation at Kutis South County Chapel 5255 Lemay Ferry Rd. Thursday, January 27, 5-9 p.m. Funeral Service at St. John Lutheran Church (Arnold) on Friday, January 28, at 10 a.m. Inurnment Jefferson Barracks National Cemetery.
In lieu of flowers, the family asks for any donations to be sent to either DAV (Disabled American Veterans) https://bit.ly/3qHvONR or to KTK Productions by check sent to 738 Peal Dr, St. Louis, MO 63125.
I am surprised and saddened with Pat’s passing. Able to spend a lot of time during reunion weekend, including him being in my foursome on Sunday. My prayers go out for Pat and his family.
I am surprised and saddened with Pat’s passing. Able to spend a lot of time during reunion weekend, including him being in my foursome on Sunday. My prayers go out for Pat and his family.
Pat’s passing was real shock. Last September he lit up our St Mary’s 50-year class reunion with his huge presence. We will miss him dearly.
Pat’s passing was real shock. Last September he lit up our St Mary’s 50-year class reunion with his huge presence. We will miss him dearly.
So sad to hear this. He was definitely one of the good ones, and he will be deeply missed by so many.
So sad to hear this. He was definitely one of the good ones, and he will be deeply missed by so many.
Pat was very nice to me since Freshman Football, as I was their locker room manager.
While a letter carrier, he told me about the 5 to 6 plays annually that he rehearsed, playing the dialogue in his car, reciting his lines. Pat had his fun on stage, made my Dad happy portraying a “Toad’s Wild Ride” character. He trusted and was vulnerable, sharing early life stories.
We St. Mary’s Dragons were lucky to have Pat for 54 years!
Pat was very nice to me since Freshman Football, as I was their locker room manager.
While a letter carrier, he told me about the 5 to 6 plays annually that he rehearsed, playing the dialogue in his car, reciting his lines. Pat had his fun on stage, made my Dad happy portraying a “Toad’s Wild Ride” character. He trusted and was vulnerable, sharing early life stories.
We St. Mary’s Dragons were lucky to have Pat for 54 years!
The room lit up when Pat came in. He had an energy like no other and the first words out of his mouth were always “How are ya”? Had the privilege and honor of being in a few shows with Pat and we had a blast in all of them. Pat is gone but will never be forgotten. Prayers to Jan and the family.
The room lit up when Pat came in. He had an energy like no other and the first words out of his mouth were always “How are ya”? Had the privilege and honor of being in a few shows with Pat and we had a blast in all of them. Pat is gone but will never be forgotten. Prayers to Jan and the family.
The world be less as bright with Pat’s passing. His wonderful spirit, presence and smile will be missed by all.
May the peace that passes all understanding comfort all who knew and loved Pat.
The big stage in the sky has gained a new star.
The world be less as bright with Pat’s passing. His wonderful spirit, presence and smile will be missed by all.
May the peace that passes all understanding comfort all who knew and loved Pat.
The big stage in the sky has gained a new star.
Uncle Pat was the best Uncles a nephew could have. He truly loved me right where I am without judgement. He surely will be missed. We need more Uncle Pats in this world.
Uncle Pat was the best Uncles a nephew could have. He truly loved me right where I am without judgement. He surely will be missed. We need more Uncle Pats in this world.
I was shocked and saddened when the families updates on Pat’s hospitalization suddenly turned for the worse. My wife Carol and I along with both of our daughters feel like we lost part of our family. We knew Pat since he got out of the Army in 1977 and shared many good times over the years with him and all his family. He will always be in our memories and our hearts.
I was shocked and saddened when the families updates on Pat’s hospitalization suddenly turned for the worse. My wife Carol and I along with both of our daughters feel like we lost part of our family. We knew Pat since he got out of the Army in 1977 and shared many good times over the years with him and all his family. He will always be in our memories and our hearts.
Had such a wonderful talk with him at our recent 71 class reunion, truly the life of the party. Rest In Peace fellow Dragon.
Had such a wonderful talk with him at our recent 71 class reunion, truly the life of the party. Rest In Peace fellow Dragon.
Yes family does not always mean just blood, Pat became part of our family about 30 years ago. He was loved dearly by all of us & will definitely be missed. We met thru KTK & I had the pleasure of working on many shows with Pat, and working with him on the Board. Josh would sometimes spend weekends with us during rehearsals as Pat being a Postman had to work on Saturdays. His love for Jan, his kids & grandkids, was never ending. He loved life to the fullest & was one of the kindest, sweetest man you could ever meet. Our thoughts, prayers, & love to Jan, Josh, Penny, Patty, Deana, & their families. ❤️
Yes family does not always mean just blood, Pat became part of our family about 30 years ago. He was loved dearly by all of us & will definitely be missed. We met thru KTK & I had the pleasure of working on many shows with Pat, and working with him on the Board. Josh would sometimes spend weekends with us during rehearsals as Pat being a Postman had to work on Saturdays. His love for Jan, his kids & grandkids, was never ending. He loved life to the fullest & was one of the kindest, sweetest man you could ever meet. Our thoughts, prayers, & love to Jan, Josh, Penny, Patty, Deana, & their families. ❤️
I can see Pat at the Reunion Party up there with the microphone in hand, belting out a Motown tune. What a great guy. May God bless him and help his family through their time of grief.
I can see Pat at the Reunion Party up there with the microphone in hand, belting out a Motown tune. What a great guy. May God bless him and help his family through their time of grief.
What a wonderful tribute for a life well lived. But so sadly taken too early. We just got to know Pat & Jan at trivia nights. He definitely raised the energy in the room when he arrived and will be greatly missed. Jan, our heart breaks for you and the family. We wish you peace.
What a wonderful tribute for a life well lived. But so sadly taken too early. We just got to know Pat & Jan at trivia nights. He definitely raised the energy in the room when he arrived and will be greatly missed. Jan, our heart breaks for you and the family. We wish you peace.
I’m very sad to hear about the passing of Patrick. I’ve known him for about a decade through community theatre and we even did a few shows together. I’ll always remember Patrick’s amazing and sweet personality both on and off stage!! Thoughts and prayers are with Janet and the family.
I’m very sad to hear about the passing of Patrick. I’ve known him for about a decade through community theatre and we even did a few shows together. I’ll always remember Patrick’s amazing and sweet personality both on and off stage!! Thoughts and prayers are with Janet and the family.
Thank you so much for writing this. This was beautiful. Pat was so loved by everyone that knew him. He was one of the good ones. I will miss seeing him at events and getting that Pat hug. My next Bud Select will be for him. I will miss him.
Thank you so much for writing this. This was beautiful. Pat was so loved by everyone that knew him. He was one of the good ones. I will miss seeing him at events and getting that Pat hug. My next Bud Select will be for him. I will miss him.
We were roommates (The Odd Couple) co-workers (Moonlight and Magnolias) even ‘Sisters’–(KTK Cabaret 2008)–but he was the best of friends and I always enjoyed our get togethers and looked forward to the next as soon as the current one finished. I miss him already.
Love, peace and hugs to Jan and the family.
We were roommates (The Odd Couple) co-workers (Moonlight and Magnolias) even ‘Sisters’–(KTK Cabaret 2008)–but he was the best of friends and I always enjoyed our get togethers and looked forward to the next as soon as the current one finished. I miss him already.
Love, peace and hugs to Jan and the family.
Pat and I met when we were in 7th Grade at Resurrection Grade School in South St. Louis…we played football together at Resurrection and St. Mary’s. He was my best friend through High School whether I was hangin w/the football team or the ‘long hairs’ after football season.
Because he was one of the first guys in our ‘group’ to get a drivers license he was our main mode of transportation in the red Rambler ( the ME Mobile). I spent many days and nights with Pat and his mother and father and we even visited his family in Paducah, KY. I was also with him to help him grieve when his mother died while he was still in highschool.
Pat was the person who introduced me to ‘theatre’ by talking me into getting into plays in highschool and at Resurrection. I was never the talent that Pat was but he assured me it was a good way to meet girls….and he was right!
I was never surprised that he continued to perform as that was his forte.
I was surprised and saddened when I got notice of his passing!
Pat was truly a good man and a friend to all….he will be missed!
God Bless Pat’s memory and his Family for their loss.
Pat and I met when we were in 7th Grade at Resurrection Grade School in South St. Louis…we played football together at Resurrection and St. Mary’s. He was my best friend through High School whether I was hangin w/the football team or the ‘long hairs’ after football season.
Because he was one of the first guys in our ‘group’ to get a drivers license he was our main mode of transportation in the red Rambler ( the ME Mobile). I spent many days and nights with Pat and his mother and father and we even visited his family in Paducah, KY. I was also with him to help him grieve when his mother died while he was still in highschool.
Pat was the person who introduced me to ‘theatre’ by talking me into getting into plays in highschool and at Resurrection. I was never the talent that Pat was but he assured me it was a good way to meet girls….and he was right!
I was never surprised that he continued to perform as that was his forte.
I was surprised and saddened when I got notice of his passing!
Pat was truly a good man and a friend to all….he will be missed!
God Bless Pat’s memory and his Family for their loss.
Deepest sympathy to Jan and the whole family. Pat was one of the best.
Deepest sympathy to Jan and the whole family. Pat was one of the best.
The theatre community feels like there is a dark hole with Patrick gone. His joy of living and working in theatre will be missed. He brought light and fun to every character he played.
The theatre community feels like there is a dark hole with Patrick gone. His joy of living and working in theatre will be missed. He brought light and fun to every character he played.
So sorry for your loss. What a beautiful story about your dad. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Lots of love!
So sorry for your loss. What a beautiful story about your dad. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Lots of love!
I remember doing a show at KTK and coming into the dressing room opening night and seeing a note from Patrick to everyone in the cast individually wishing us luck, Break-a-Leg, and that he would see the show the following week. I just remembered how nice he was. He was a genuinely nice human. He will be greatly missed. My sincere condolences.
I remember doing a show at KTK and coming into the dressing room opening night and seeing a note from Patrick to everyone in the cast individually wishing us luck, Break-a-Leg, and that he would see the show the following week. I just remembered how nice he was. He was a genuinely nice human. He will be greatly missed. My sincere condolences.
I still find it hard to realize that he’s gone. Such a robust,energetic and loving guy to be knocked down so quickly. I knew Pat thru the theater community and as a Letter Carrier. Always smiling and brightening the room. He and Jan were the perfect pair and his love shined thru his eyes. You will be missed by hundreds of people that met Pat during his lifetime. My love and condolences to Jan and the entire family.
I still find it hard to realize that he’s gone. Such a robust,energetic and loving guy to be knocked down so quickly. I knew Pat thru the theater community and as a Letter Carrier. Always smiling and brightening the room. He and Jan were the perfect pair and his love shined thru his eyes. You will be missed by hundreds of people that met Pat during his lifetime. My love and condolences to Jan and the entire family.
I will miss all of your stories and the time we shared together. You were a hoot in high school and a joy to be around for the 50 years after.
I will miss all of your stories and the time we shared together. You were a hoot in high school and a joy to be around for the 50 years after.
While Heaven received a true Angel, our world is a bit darker without Patrick. We offer our most sincere condolences and deepest sympathy to his entire family who have had to say goodbye far too soon. Patrick left a mark & will be fondly remembered forever.
While Heaven received a true Angel, our world is a bit darker without Patrick. We offer our most sincere condolences and deepest sympathy to his entire family who have had to say goodbye far too soon. Patrick left a mark & will be fondly remembered forever.
Pat was a wonderful man and a great friend to my parents. He will be missed greatly. Our hearts break for you all. Cherish all the memories! My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Pat was a wonderful man and a great friend to my parents. He will be missed greatly. Our hearts break for you all. Cherish all the memories! My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Patrick was such a lovely soul. Gone too soon. Jan, my heart breaks for you and the family. You are all in my prayers. May the choirs of angels lead him into Paradise.
Patrick was such a lovely soul. Gone too soon. Jan, my heart breaks for you and the family. You are all in my prayers. May the choirs of angels lead him into Paradise.
Pat was a great coworker. He was such a kind and caring man. Pat will be missed terribly but will always be in the hearts who knew him.
Pat was a great coworker. He was such a kind and caring man. Pat will be missed terribly but will always be in the hearts who knew him.
I’m so thankful I had the honor to known. You were so lucky to have had each other. He will be missed. Sending my deep condolences to Janet and his family.
I’m so thankful I had the honor to known. You were so lucky to have had each other. He will be missed. Sending my deep condolences to Janet and his family.
Patrick was one of the kindest and warmest souls I have met in theatre and in my life. His friendliness was memorable and unfailing every time you saw him. He never knew a stranger and I feel honored to have known him.
Patrick was one of the kindest and warmest souls I have met in theatre and in my life. His friendliness was memorable and unfailing every time you saw him. He never knew a stranger and I feel honored to have known him.
Wow! What a surprise. I knew Pat from the Ballwin P.O. days. We worked together all those years and during, played on ball teams, golf teams, fished, floated and as single Dad’s, raised our kids in the same townhome complex. Pat took my keys from me one night on my Birthday when I had celebrated way tooo much. Drove me back to the townhome complex and then to work, via my car the next day. I seriously feel like Pat may have saved my life or that of someone else I may have hit had he not done that. I have no proof……well other than I’m still here because of it. I loved this guy, he truly was one a kind and one of the best! I will miss him.
Wow! What a surprise. I knew Pat from the Ballwin P.O. days. We worked together all those years and during, played on ball teams, golf teams, fished, floated and as single Dad’s, raised our kids in the same townhome complex. Pat took my keys from me one night on my Birthday when I had celebrated way tooo much. Drove me back to the townhome complex and then to work, via my car the next day. I seriously feel like Pat may have saved my life or that of someone else I may have hit had he not done that. I have no proof……well other than I’m still here because of it. I loved this guy, he truly was one a kind and one of the best! I will miss him.
Heaven got one of the great ones. I miss you and that smile my brother.
Heaven got one of the great ones. I miss you and that smile my brother.
I was lucky to do a show with Pat. He sure did have a way to energize anything and everything he did. R.I.P Pat your curtain has come down.
I was lucky to do a show with Pat. He sure did have a way to energize anything and everything he did. R.I.P Pat your curtain has come down.
It was a honor to know and work with you my friend! Although you may not remember me Janet, please except my heart felt condolences.
It was a honor to know and work with you my friend! Although you may not remember me Janet, please except my heart felt condolences.
Pat will be greatly missed, it was an honor to know him.
Pat will be greatly missed, it was an honor to know him.
So many memories of working with Pat all those years. Our lives are better for having known you. We loved you and miss you my friend.
So many memories of working with Pat all those years. Our lives are better for having known you. We loved you and miss you my friend.
Pat was such a nice person. He was never too busy to answer any “dumb” questions. He will be sorely missed by his family and friends. Prayers for peace and comfort being sent.
Pat was such a nice person. He was never too busy to answer any “dumb” questions. He will be sorely missed by his family and friends. Prayers for peace and comfort being sent.
Patrick was one of the most well-liked members of our Wednesday Golf Group. He was a good golfer and lots of fun to play with. Everyone in the Group will miss his great sense of humor and his playing golf with us every week. Hit ’em straight, Pat.
Patrick was one of the most well-liked members of our Wednesday Golf Group. He was a good golfer and lots of fun to play with. Everyone in the Group will miss his great sense of humor and his playing golf with us every week. Hit ’em straight, Pat.
I happened to play golf with Pat in a Wednesday golf group and rode together in same golf cart this past October, I felt after one day of golf together, that I had been a friend of Pat for many years! I was very sad to learn of Pat’s passing, and I really had only played golf with him the one time in October 2021. I can see why Pat had so many friends!
I happened to play golf with Pat in a Wednesday golf group and rode together in same golf cart this past October, I felt after one day of golf together, that I had been a friend of Pat for many years! I was very sad to learn of Pat’s passing, and I really had only played golf with him the one time in October 2021. I can see why Pat had so many friends!
It was a honor to work with Pat for so many years as his supervisor he was a great person my condolence to entire family
It was a honor to work with Pat for so many years as his supervisor he was a great person my condolence to entire family
Patrick will be greatly missed. It was an honor to work and know him. The angels have spread their wings to receive him. So sorry for your loss Jan.
Patrick will be greatly missed. It was an honor to work and know him. The angels have spread their wings to receive him. So sorry for your loss Jan.
A great person friendly and inspiring! He will be greatly missed’
A great person friendly and inspiring! He will be greatly missed’
Darling boy, you will be missed, but heaven is the richer for it. Thank you for your friendship.
Darling boy, you will be missed, but heaven is the richer for it. Thank you for your friendship.
I really enjoyed working with Pat for all those years at Ballwin PO. He always had a smile and was friendly and helpful to everyone. He will be missed. Prayers going out to his family and everyone who loved him.
I really enjoyed working with Pat for all those years at Ballwin PO. He always had a smile and was friendly and helpful to everyone. He will be missed. Prayers going out to his family and everyone who loved him.
I worked with Pat at the good old post office in Ballwin. He was always so nice to me and others. One time he came up to me and asked if I would come and see him in a play he was going to be in. I went and was very impressed with his performance. After leaving the post office some years later my sister and I became season ticket holders for KTK and enjoyed many a play that Pat was in, along with his wife and so many other talented people. He will be greatly missed by many. He was a great guy!!
I worked with Pat at the good old post office in Ballwin. He was always so nice to me and others. One time he came up to me and asked if I would come and see him in a play he was going to be in. I went and was very impressed with his performance. After leaving the post office some years later my sister and I became season ticket holders for KTK and enjoyed many a play that Pat was in, along with his wife and so many other talented people. He will be greatly missed by many. He was a great guy!!
Jan, Tom and I are keeping you all in our thoughts and hearts. You are also in my special basket. We hope your sweet memories of Patrick are a blessing for you and the rest of the family. Love, Kathy Day
Jan, Tom and I are keeping you all in our thoughts and hearts. You are also in my special basket. We hope your sweet memories of Patrick are a blessing for you and the rest of the family. Love, Kathy Day
Pat was a kind and caring co-worker
Pat was a kind and caring co-worker
Great singer, actor and entertainer. He was a better dancer than a basketball player. Always fun to be around. Will definitely be missed by those of us who are proud KTK and St Mary’s alumni.
Great singer, actor and entertainer. He was a better dancer than a basketball player. Always fun to be around. Will definitely be missed by those of us who are proud KTK and St Mary’s alumni.
My heartfelt sympathies to Janet & entire Pat Wheatley Loved Ones. I was fortunate to share Pat’s tremendous Love of Life & his incredible Personality since grade school & SM high school, as competitive teammate & wonderful person. Saw him last a SM reunion years ago, but please always remember when we talked about our Families, his eyes light up !!!
We have to continue his Legacy to share kindness to others. You All in my Daily Prayers & support, what a wonderful example for all of us.
My heartfelt sympathies to Janet & entire Pat Wheatley Loved Ones. I was fortunate to share Pat’s tremendous Love of Life & his incredible Personality since grade school & SM high school, as competitive teammate & wonderful person. Saw him last a SM reunion years ago, but please always remember when we talked about our Families, his eyes light up !!!
We have to continue his Legacy to share kindness to others. You All in my Daily Prayers & support, what a wonderful example for all of us.
Patrick started our introductions on the 1st day we moved to Ballwin.
When I told him I was from NY, his 1st question was: ” Mets or Yankees”?
Thankfully I answered with the American League team (“Yankees”), and so began a 36 year friendship!
Over the years, while we worked together at the P.O., I learned just how lucky that 1st encounter was for me, since I found a funny, warm-hearted, generous, loyal, smart, & supportive man who became like a brother to me!
We worked on the Union picnics & more recently on the Eureka Lions BBQ weekends together, and often enjoyed fried chicken, & a beer or 2 ( or some bourbon ) out to lunch or dinner or at each other’s home. We shared a love of golf which annually involved us taking trips to the Lake of the Ozarks to play together in the Union tournament. We had more opportunities to golf once Pat retired, and blessedly, once I took his advice and retired as well in 2020, we were able to golf together every Wednesday!
He loved performing theater, watching Blues hockey, singing Frank Sinatra/Dean Martin style music, and telling wonderful stories.
Most of all, Pat loved his family: his beautiful wife Jan, his 4 terrific kids, and all of his grandchildren. They were all the loves of his life and he would do anything for them!
Pat was always there for me too, helping when I moved from apartment to apartment to a house, driving my wife & I to the airport to visit our daughter, especially being there for me when my wife had a stroke! Pat & Jan traveled to Houston for our daughter’s wedding and did me the honor of singing the Billy Joel song Lullaby (Goodnight My Angel) for the father/daughter dance that day!
My wife and I are absolutely heartbroken for Jan, Deanna, Penny, Patty, Josh and all their grandchildren. We have all lost an angel in our lives, and will miss him forever!
Rest well, my brother, knowing you made all of our lives better just by being in them!
Patrick started our introductions on the 1st day we moved to Ballwin.
When I told him I was from NY, his 1st question was: ” Mets or Yankees”?
Thankfully I answered with the American League team (“Yankees”), and so began a 36 year friendship!
Over the years, while we worked together at the P.O., I learned just how lucky that 1st encounter was for me, since I found a funny, warm-hearted, generous, loyal, smart, & supportive man who became like a brother to me!
We worked on the Union picnics & more recently on the Eureka Lions BBQ weekends together, and often enjoyed fried chicken, & a beer or 2 ( or some bourbon ) out to lunch or dinner or at each other’s home. We shared a love of golf which annually involved us taking trips to the Lake of the Ozarks to play together in the Union tournament. We had more opportunities to golf once Pat retired, and blessedly, once I took his advice and retired as well in 2020, we were able to golf together every Wednesday!
He loved performing theater, watching Blues hockey, singing Frank Sinatra/Dean Martin style music, and telling wonderful stories.
Most of all, Pat loved his family: his beautiful wife Jan, his 4 terrific kids, and all of his grandchildren. They were all the loves of his life and he would do anything for them!
Pat was always there for me too, helping when I moved from apartment to apartment to a house, driving my wife & I to the airport to visit our daughter, especially being there for me when my wife had a stroke! Pat & Jan traveled to Houston for our daughter’s wedding and did me the honor of singing the Billy Joel song Lullaby (Goodnight My Angel) for the father/daughter dance that day!
My wife and I are absolutely heartbroken for Jan, Deanna, Penny, Patty, Josh and all their grandchildren. We have all lost an angel in our lives, and will miss him forever!
Rest well, my brother, knowing you made all of our lives better just by being in them!
A great loss. And not just to the theatre community. My thoughts are with Pat’s family and friends.
One last curtain call, Big Guy.
A great loss. And not just to the theatre community. My thoughts are with Pat’s family and friends.
One last curtain call, Big Guy.
Very sorry to hear of Pat’s passing. He was a wonderful person to be around. I always enjoyed talking with him on numerous occasions over the years. He was a good guy and never had a bad remark for any of his teammates. I will miss his input whenever he was asked to contribute .
May God bless him!
Very sorry to hear of Pat’s passing. He was a wonderful person to be around. I always enjoyed talking with him on numerous occasions over the years. He was a good guy and never had a bad remark for any of his teammates. I will miss his input whenever he was asked to contribute .
May God bless him!
I was getting ready to drop of school when pat talked me out of it.what a great guy.great football player an friend.he will be missed.god bless you pat.
I was getting ready to drop of school when pat talked me out of it.what a great guy.great football player an friend.he will be missed.god bless you pat.