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In Loving Memory

Wecke, Matthew William

Matthew William Wecke died November 22, 2020 at Evelyn’s House, due to metastatic esophageal cancer, at the age of 57.

Matt was born December 8, 1962 in St. Louis to Joan and Herman Wecke. He was the second of three boys, Rick the eldest and Chris the baby.

Matt was preceded in death by his father, Herman, and mother, Joan. He is survived by his amazing wife Linda, daughter Abbey (husband Dave), and two sons Alex (wife Sarah) and Steven (wife Katelyn). His legacy will live on through his grandchildren Nora, Carter, Noah, Liam, Anna, and soon to be grandbaby number 6.

Matt was always willing to help others, especially when it included his love of building things from scratch. Not only did he build anything Linda could imagine, but he instilled this sense of selflessness that created a family that thrived on one another. Always willing to help, he will not only be in our memories, but in the homes we live in that would not be the same without his helping hand.

Matt had a love for the game of soccer. From watching his father play in the professional St. Louis league, to playing the sport himself, to teaching not only his children but also coaching hundreds of young men and women at Notre Dame and St. Marys. He also had a love for golf and would spend as much time as he could on the links. He loved playing with his children and jumped at any opportunity to play with them.

Due to the Covid pandemic we will not be holding a service at this time. Matt had a distaste for funerals and we will celebrate with an outdoor extravaganza at a future date.  Please hold on to your memories and when we are able to gather again, we would love to hear about and relive the great times we were able to spend with Matt. We will update this notification when we have more information and feel safe to gather with all of his loved ones and friends.

The family asks that in lieu of flowers, any donations be made to:

The Down Syndrome Association of Greater St. Louis in Matt’s honor. 8531 Page Avenue, Suite 120St. Louis, MO 63114

Phone: 314.961.2504

Website: https://dsagsl.org

Donation link: https://dsagsl.org/donation/

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42 thoughts on “Wecke, Matthew William”

  1. Hi

    Some of you may know me some of you not. I am the big brother of John Shore and Mark Shore. Matt and Chris were our neighbors in St Louis on Wilmington street for a decade. I was a little older than they were. I can tell you though that I gained two extra brothers the year we moved in to our house. Matt and Chris.

    I just had this memory of seeing Matt break his collar bone one summer during a base ball game he and my brother John were playing in. I know we had a blue truck so it must have been around 1970 or so?

    After the incident I would go to his house everyday and try and keep him company. I felt so bad that the summer was going on and he was stuck there on that couch! I felt as one would for a little brother.

    This writing of mine brings back the memory for me at least of a brief moment that I shared with Matt.

    Matt

    There was a pole
    And you hit it smack dab in the middle
    My Dad’s blue truck, brought you in
    Somebody called your mom

    The brace you received was made to blend
    Like flesh, but wasn’t fooling anybody

    The sun broke into a smile the next day
    The summer played out its joke
    You lay out on the couch
    Watching seventies cartoons
    The T.V. colors were off

    I came to your side
    Nearly everyday for a week or two
    Around your mom’s oval coffee table
    You watched as Hot Wheel cars gave chase
    Constantly making their left turns to no where

    The summer called us out
    Your brother and my two
    Fuzz ball, hot walks on
    St Louis side walks
    Down to Marquette pool

    Then….just like that…
    You got better.

    (For you dear friend Matthew William Wecke)

    Joseph Shore Nov.22 2020

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  2. Hi

    Some of you may know me some of you not. I am the big brother of John Shore and Mark Shore. Matt and Chris were our neighbors in St Louis on Wilmington street for a decade. I was a little older than they were. I can tell you though that I gained two extra brothers the year we moved in to our house. Matt and Chris.

    I just had this memory of seeing Matt break his collar bone one summer during a base ball game he and my brother John were playing in. I know we had a blue truck so it must have been around 1970 or so?

    After the incident I would go to his house everyday and try and keep him company. I felt so bad that the summer was going on and he was stuck there on that couch! I felt as one would for a little brother.

    This writing of mine brings back the memory for me at least of a brief moment that I shared with Matt.

    Matt

    There was a pole
    And you hit it smack dab in the middle
    My Dad’s blue truck, brought you in
    Somebody called your mom

    The brace you received was made to blend
    Like flesh, but wasn’t fooling anybody

    The sun broke into a smile the next day
    The summer played out its joke
    You lay out on the couch
    Watching seventies cartoons
    The T.V. colors were off

    I came to your side
    Nearly everyday for a week or two
    Around your mom’s oval coffee table
    You watched as Hot Wheel cars gave chase
    Constantly making their left turns to no where

    The summer called us out
    Your brother and my two
    Fuzz ball, hot walks on
    St Louis side walks
    Down to Marquette pool

    Then….just like that…
    You got better.

    (For you dear friend Matthew William Wecke)

    Joseph Shore Nov.22 2020

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  3. I was privileged to work with Matt for 30+ years. A man of honor and integrity does not come close to describing Matt. I could always count on Matt’s word being gospel. Whoever worked with him quickly learned this as well. – whether it be a client, general contractor, or fellow tradesman.

    Probably the best Testament I can give Matt is that the GC demanded Matt on the Soldier’s Memorial project. This from the same GC Superintendent that ar times frustrated Matt (and I’m sure vice versa) at the Chase Residences. Matt was successful at some of the toughest projects that we did. Never once did I worry about a. Project when Matt was in charge.

    He was very special to me and I will remember him always. Not often do people like Matt cross into our lives. Mike Fogarty

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  4. I was privileged to work with Matt for 30+ years. A man of honor and integrity does not come close to describing Matt. I could always count on Matt’s word being gospel. Whoever worked with him quickly learned this as well. – whether it be a client, general contractor, or fellow tradesman.

    Probably the best Testament I can give Matt is that the GC demanded Matt on the Soldier’s Memorial project. This from the same GC Superintendent that ar times frustrated Matt (and I’m sure vice versa) at the Chase Residences. Matt was successful at some of the toughest projects that we did. Never once did I worry about a. Project when Matt was in charge.

    He was very special to me and I will remember him always. Not often do people like Matt cross into our lives. Mike Fogarty

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  5. Our thoughts and prayers are with Linda and the entire Wecke family. Matt was a wonderful person and will be greatly missed.

    Jesse and Katie (Shore) Greenstreet

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  6. Our thoughts and prayers are with Linda and the entire Wecke family. Matt was a wonderful person and will be greatly missed.

    Jesse and Katie (Shore) Greenstreet

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  7. Matt and his brother Chris were/are my two best friends ever (Rick was okay too I guess), but we often got on his nerves as little brothers will do growing up. Anyway, I was often a competitor against Matt and often would come up on the short end, as little brothers often do. He was always a tough out, but always fair and always humble, unlike Chris. If there were ever a perfect couple it was Matt and Linda. They were truly a match made in heaven and I always thought of them as perfect. I admired him/them for that as little brothers do.

    Love you Matt & Linda, Chris & Becky, and all your kids and grandkids. What a legacy you’ve built and I admire, as little brothers do.

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  8. Matt and his brother Chris were/are my two best friends ever (Rick was okay too I guess), but we often got on his nerves as little brothers will do growing up. Anyway, I was often a competitor against Matt and often would come up on the short end, as little brothers often do. He was always a tough out, but always fair and always humble, unlike Chris. If there were ever a perfect couple it was Matt and Linda. They were truly a match made in heaven and I always thought of them as perfect. I admired him/them for that as little brothers do.

    Love you Matt & Linda, Chris & Becky, and all your kids and grandkids. What a legacy you’ve built and I admire, as little brothers do.

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  9. Dear Linda and family. I am heartbroken that we all had to say goodbye to Matt. He was always so thoughtful and helpful and an absolute gentleman to me. I will always remember him with fondness. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this trying time.

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  10. Dear Linda and family. I am heartbroken that we all had to say goodbye to Matt. He was always so thoughtful and helpful and an absolute gentleman to me. I will always remember him with fondness. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this trying time.

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  11. Matt was a big brother to me as if my three bio brothers were not enough. My favorite memory of Matt is when the five of us were playing in their metal horse tank pool and Chris and Mark were teasing me relentlessly. Matt “pantsed” Chris, throwing his swim trunk so far it seemed all the way across the street. Before I could fully relish his unexpected rebuke though, he dunked my head so I wouldn’t see Chris’s nakedness as he retrieved his pants without first grabbing his towel! Good times, big brother. Circa 1976 or so.

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  12. Matt was a big brother to me as if my three bio brothers were not enough. My favorite memory of Matt is when the five of us were playing in their metal horse tank pool and Chris and Mark were teasing me relentlessly. Matt “pantsed” Chris, throwing his swim trunk so far it seemed all the way across the street. Before I could fully relish his unexpected rebuke though, he dunked my head so I wouldn’t see Chris’s nakedness as he retrieved his pants without first grabbing his towel! Good times, big brother. Circa 1976 or so.

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  13. I met Matt in high school and had the privilege of playing along side of Matt at Cleveland, playing against him in college, and coaching against him a few times. He will be missed!!

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  14. I met Matt in high school and had the privilege of playing along side of Matt at Cleveland, playing against him in college, and coaching against him a few times. He will be missed!!

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  15. Matt
    You were one of best and the fairest general Forman I ever worked with in 42 year career. I always knew where I stood with u and u made the day fun. I will miss u my friend

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  16. Matt
    You were one of best and the fairest general Forman I ever worked with in 42 year career. I always knew where I stood with u and u made the day fun. I will miss u my friend

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  17. Matt, great person and great soccer player. My priviledge playing defense along side of you at SEMO. And all the neighborhood games before. RIP

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  18. Matt, great person and great soccer player. My priviledge playing defense along side of you at SEMO. And all the neighborhood games before. RIP

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  19. Matt was a great guy to work for and with. Always looked forward to working for him. I was proud to call him my friend. Please know that you are all in my prayers.

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  20. Matt was a great guy to work for and with. Always looked forward to working for him. I was proud to call him my friend. Please know that you are all in my prayers.

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  21. im sorry for this great loss to his family and friends .i was honored to be his friend team mate and fellow coach.i admired his inner strenght. a great dad ,husband and friend . we will miss him

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  22. im sorry for this great loss to his family and friends .i was honored to be his friend team mate and fellow coach.i admired his inner strenght. a great dad ,husband and friend . we will miss him

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  23. So sorry to hear of Matt’s passing.He was a great guy to work for and with.My life was better for having known him! Linda, please know that you and your family are in my prayers.

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  24. So sorry to hear of Matt’s passing.He was a great guy to work for and with.My life was better for having known him! Linda, please know that you and your family are in my prayers.

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  25. Linda on behalf of the ladies who play Hand and Foot Cards every Monday, we want you to know that we are so very sorry for your loss of Matt. Our hearts break knowing your heart is breaking at losing Matt so soon. Please know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. May God hold you family in His loving arms and comfort you.

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  26. Linda on behalf of the ladies who play Hand and Foot Cards every Monday, we want you to know that we are so very sorry for your loss of Matt. Our hearts break knowing your heart is breaking at losing Matt so soon. Please know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. May God hold you family in His loving arms and comfort you.

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  27. Dear Linda
    I’m so very sorry for your loss. Matt was a great person. I pray for you & your family. I have so many great memories of Matt starting with grade school.

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  28. Dear Linda
    I’m so very sorry for your loss. Matt was a great person. I pray for you & your family. I have so many great memories of Matt starting with grade school.

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  29. Dear Linda,
    We are so sorry for the loss of your husband Matt. We did not know Matt but Daniel our Grandson was his good friend and told us about Matt.
    Give our condolences also to your Mom and Dad, Barb and Larry.
    With love,

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  30. Dear Linda,
    We are so sorry for the loss of your husband Matt. We did not know Matt but Daniel our Grandson was his good friend and told us about Matt.
    Give our condolences also to your Mom and Dad, Barb and Larry.
    With love,

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