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In Loving Memory

Isenberg, Vern A.

Baptized into the Hope of Christ’s Resurrection Tuesday, January 17, 2023.

Beloved husband of the late Susan K. Isenberg (nee Maloney); loving father of Jennifer (Steve) Giltner and Suzanne (Rahul) Chhabra; adoring grandfather of Niam Chhabra; dear brother of the late Richard, Ruth and Darryl Isenberg; dear uncle of Chad (Erica) Isenberg. Our dearest relative and friend to many.

Dad was a 3rd generation German immigrant. He was the oldest of 4 siblings, yet he was the last to pass away. He grew up on a large chicken farm in Illinois. Attended school in a 1 room schoolhouse for many years. He did not want to be a farmer and knew education was his way out and would eventually go on to complete his master’s degree in accounting. He was a financial manager for the USDA for most of his career. He Joined the Rosicrucian order in his early twenties and this became his lifes work. He married our mother Susan, and they lived in Arlington Virginia and then babies Jennifer & Suzanne joined the family. The family moved back to Saint Louis in 1991 to be closer to both sides of the family. His wife of 47 years passed away in 2018 and he was living with the 9# poodle Barky which became his everyday companion. Vern was living with Alzheimer’s with lots of support and it’s a blessing that he has passed on and is no longer suffering.

FUNERAL AND VISITATION ALL AT THE KUTIS CITY CHAPEL 2906 GRAVOIS 63118

Funeral from Kutis City Chapel 2906 Gravois 63118 on Saturday, January 21 at 10:30 am. Interment at Sunset Cemetery. In lieu of flowers contributions to Alzheimer’s Association appreciated.          Visitation Friday 4-7 pm.

 

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41 thoughts on “Isenberg, Vern A.”

  1. Vern was one of the most intelligent people I ever knew. He was so interesting to just sit and talk with. He was a good man, a gentle giant. He and Susan were devoted to one another. I’ll never forget the New Years Eve we spent together sitting center balcony on the Branson Belle. And, Vern, Susan and I walked through a number of flea markets together. Barkey has lost his good buddy, but Susan has “her Vern” back. God bless them both, and best wishes to Barkey in his new home! My deepest condolences to Suzanne, Rahul, Niam, Jennifer and Steve.

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  2. Vern was one of the most intelligent people I ever knew. He was so interesting to just sit and talk with. He was a good man, a gentle giant. He and Susan were devoted to one another. I’ll never forget the New Years Eve we spent together sitting center balcony on the Branson Belle. And, Vern, Susan and I walked through a number of flea markets together. Barkey has lost his good buddy, but Susan has “her Vern” back. God bless them both, and best wishes to Barkey in his new home! My deepest condolences to Suzanne, Rahul, Niam, Jennifer and Steve.

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  3. Dear Vern, a life on this wonderful ‘blue dot’ in the vastness of our universe…, what an honour, what an experience! I suspect only a very few know of the realm you have risen to; but from the little I have gleaned from life and its myriad expressions of Light, Life and Love, I know that only good, beauty, wonder and Light now surrounds you! Thank you dear Frater for the Light you shared with many, and the lives that were transformed for the better because of you. In the Bonds of the Ordo Rosae Crucis, I salute you. My deep condolences go to all who knew and loved Vern during his journey through our world.

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  4. Dear Vern, a life on this wonderful ‘blue dot’ in the vastness of our universe…, what an honour, what an experience! I suspect only a very few know of the realm you have risen to; but from the little I have gleaned from life and its myriad expressions of Light, Life and Love, I know that only good, beauty, wonder and Light now surrounds you! Thank you dear Frater for the Light you shared with many, and the lives that were transformed for the better because of you. In the Bonds of the Ordo Rosae Crucis, I salute you. My deep condolences go to all who knew and loved Vern during his journey through our world.

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  5. My deepest condolences to the family. I didn’t have the pleasure of meeting Vern. But I’m sure he was a man of great integrity. He will be truly missed. Sleep well my brother. John 5: 28,29. Revelation 21:3,4.

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  6. My deepest condolences to the family. I didn’t have the pleasure of meeting Vern. But I’m sure he was a man of great integrity. He will be truly missed. Sleep well my brother. John 5: 28,29. Revelation 21:3,4.

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  7. Sharing a poem for Vern.

    THE PAST

    He flings his past behind him
    Like a robe worn threadbare in the seams
    and out of date.

    He has outgrown it.
    Wherefore should we weep
    and dwell upon its beauty,
    and its dyes of Oriental splendor
    or complain that he must needs discard it?

    He can weave
    upon the shuttles of the future years
    a fabric far more durable.

    Subdued, it may be,
    in the blending of its hues
    whose somber shades co-mingle,
    yet the gleam of golden warp
    shall shoot it through and through
    while over a fadeless luster lies.

    And starred with gems made out of crystaled tears
    His new robe shall be richer than the old.

    (Anonymous)
    ~~~~~~~~~~~
    Rest in perfect peace, Vern, and Peace Profound!

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  8. Sharing a poem for Vern.

    THE PAST

    He flings his past behind him
    Like a robe worn threadbare in the seams
    and out of date.

    He has outgrown it.
    Wherefore should we weep
    and dwell upon its beauty,
    and its dyes of Oriental splendor
    or complain that he must needs discard it?

    He can weave
    upon the shuttles of the future years
    a fabric far more durable.

    Subdued, it may be,
    in the blending of its hues
    whose somber shades co-mingle,
    yet the gleam of golden warp
    shall shoot it through and through
    while over a fadeless luster lies.

    And starred with gems made out of crystaled tears
    His new robe shall be richer than the old.

    (Anonymous)
    ~~~~~~~~~~~
    Rest in perfect peace, Vern, and Peace Profound!

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  9. May the souls of the faithful departed through the mercy of God rest in peace. You lived a fulfilled life in the body and spirit, it’s time for your spiritual return to the cosmic to prepare you for another cycle.Rest in peace Fr Ven and peace profound.

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  10. May the souls of the faithful departed through the mercy of God rest in peace. You lived a fulfilled life in the body and spirit, it’s time for your spiritual return to the cosmic to prepare you for another cycle.Rest in peace Fr Ven and peace profound.

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  11. On behalf of Elbert Hubbard Chapter, AMORC, Dayton, Ohio, we extend our deepest sympathy and condolences to Frater Vern’s family and his many friends on his transition. He was a wonderful, spiritual leader in the Rosicrucian Order and left many loving memories for those who knew Vern and heard his spiritual presentations at Rosicrucian Conventions. He will be missed by those who loved him. May God bless Vern and his family.
    Peace Profound,
    Janet Ruckrigl

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  12. On behalf of Elbert Hubbard Chapter, AMORC, Dayton, Ohio, we extend our deepest sympathy and condolences to Frater Vern’s family and his many friends on his transition. He was a wonderful, spiritual leader in the Rosicrucian Order and left many loving memories for those who knew Vern and heard his spiritual presentations at Rosicrucian Conventions. He will be missed by those who loved him. May God bless Vern and his family.
    Peace Profound,
    Janet Ruckrigl

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  13. Our condolences to Vern’s family. Our lives were blessed to have known and worked with Vern for over 30 years in the Rosicrucian Order. He will be deeply missed but not forgotten. Until we meet again. Peace Profound.
    David and Debbie Leininger
    Kansas City Mo.

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  14. Our condolences to Vern’s family. Our lives were blessed to have known and worked with Vern for over 30 years in the Rosicrucian Order. He will be deeply missed but not forgotten. Until we meet again. Peace Profound.
    David and Debbie Leininger
    Kansas City Mo.

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  15. To Vern’s family, please accept my deepest condolences for your loss. The Lord God console you in your grief. In our work together, I remember Vern as a considerate and great teacher. He will be missed. The Lord God bless you all and keep you, his family. Amen.

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  16. To Vern’s family, please accept my deepest condolences for your loss. The Lord God console you in your grief. In our work together, I remember Vern as a considerate and great teacher. He will be missed. The Lord God bless you all and keep you, his family. Amen.

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  17. Vern,

    Thank you for sharing your light and wisdom with Nefertiti Lodge members and Nefertiti Heptad.

    May you ever dwell in the Eternal Light of Divine Wisdom

    Macrina Asmar

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  18. Vern,

    Thank you for sharing your light and wisdom with Nefertiti Lodge members and Nefertiti Heptad.

    May you ever dwell in the Eternal Light of Divine Wisdom

    Macrina Asmar

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  19. Condolences to Vern’s Family! He was a wonderful person. Always spending a few minutes whenever we met at an AMORC event over the years. I appreciated his warm talks and support. Thank you Vern for all your consultations and encouragement. Until we meet again, Peace Profound in your Eternal journey, LLL!

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  20. Condolences to Vern’s Family! He was a wonderful person. Always spending a few minutes whenever we met at an AMORC event over the years. I appreciated his warm talks and support. Thank you Vern for all your consultations and encouragement. Until we meet again, Peace Profound in your Eternal journey, LLL!

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  21. I have so many happy memories of Vern as a pillar of the Rosicrucian community in St. Louis and throughout Missouri. He showed us how to be a kind, caring, and effective leader. He was a true servant-leader. He was a font of wisdom and knowledge. Vern was highly respected throughout the region as well as nationally. It was a true pleasure to serve with him.

    I remember some of my favorite times with Vern were those light dinners at St. Louis Bread Company in Kirkwood, followed by an evening at the Lodge nearby. I had moved out of state, and when I came back to St. Louis a few times each year, we would meet for supper to catch up. He loved telling me the latest news about his family, and he was so proud of his daughters.

    Vern helped me along my spiritual path by answering questions I had along the way, and for helping to create, along with our Lodge friends, a welcoming environment for learning spiritual experience. Vern will be greatly missed by me and by many, many people.

    My heart goes out to Vern’s family and friends and they will be held in Light and Love. Vern, may you rest in Peace Profound.

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  22. I have so many happy memories of Vern as a pillar of the Rosicrucian community in St. Louis and throughout Missouri. He showed us how to be a kind, caring, and effective leader. He was a true servant-leader. He was a font of wisdom and knowledge. Vern was highly respected throughout the region as well as nationally. It was a true pleasure to serve with him.

    I remember some of my favorite times with Vern were those light dinners at St. Louis Bread Company in Kirkwood, followed by an evening at the Lodge nearby. I had moved out of state, and when I came back to St. Louis a few times each year, we would meet for supper to catch up. He loved telling me the latest news about his family, and he was so proud of his daughters.

    Vern helped me along my spiritual path by answering questions I had along the way, and for helping to create, along with our Lodge friends, a welcoming environment for learning spiritual experience. Vern will be greatly missed by me and by many, many people.

    My heart goes out to Vern’s family and friends and they will be held in Light and Love. Vern, may you rest in Peace Profound.

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  23. For Vern, Susan and Family,

    As these many hearts reflect on Vern’s life and wonderful contributions to Love on Earth, I wanted to share how Vern and his youngest daughter Suzanne modeled for me how they approach Life.

    Vern (with Suzanne’s generous gift of transportation to and from the airport) assisted me in conducting a whirl-wind trip to Chicago for a day to participate in a graduation with the Martinists. It was necessary to be home the same day and it was a lot for one day.

    Suzanne was there to pick us up after and then ferried us to our destination for dinner, then back to the airport. In all, it was a lovely day and experience of Vern. And, how he and Susan’s way of living, had carried over into their daughters’ way of living. What a lovely way to “honor thy father and mother” – model their behaviors of Love – kindnesses to strangers.

    I have no doubt Vern and Susan are very proud of their family! I am honored to have known Vern and have been at least, more than acquainted with, he and his family!

    I am sure Vern rests in Peace Profound and that Light, Life and Love will be with his family to comfort them during this time.

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  24. For Vern, Susan and Family,

    As these many hearts reflect on Vern’s life and wonderful contributions to Love on Earth, I wanted to share how Vern and his youngest daughter Suzanne modeled for me how they approach Life.

    Vern (with Suzanne’s generous gift of transportation to and from the airport) assisted me in conducting a whirl-wind trip to Chicago for a day to participate in a graduation with the Martinists. It was necessary to be home the same day and it was a lot for one day.

    Suzanne was there to pick us up after and then ferried us to our destination for dinner, then back to the airport. In all, it was a lovely day and experience of Vern. And, how he and Susan’s way of living, had carried over into their daughters’ way of living. What a lovely way to “honor thy father and mother” – model their behaviors of Love – kindnesses to strangers.

    I have no doubt Vern and Susan are very proud of their family! I am honored to have known Vern and have been at least, more than acquainted with, he and his family!

    I am sure Vern rests in Peace Profound and that Light, Life and Love will be with his family to comfort them during this time.

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  25. To Vern’s family, please accept my deepest condolences for your loss.
    May perpetual light ever shine on Vern and may he always experience peace profound! Light, life and love!

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